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Troubling Behavior

It can be tough to tell if troubling behavior in a child is just part of growing up or a problem that should be discussed with a health professional. But if there are behavioral signs and symptoms that last weeks or months, and if these issues interfere with the child’s daily life at home and at school, or with friends, you should contact a health professional.

Troubling behavior in a child

First Steps for Parents

If you are concerned about your child, where do you begin?

  • Talk with your child’s teacher. What is the child’s behavior like in school, daycare, or on the playground?

  • Talk with your child’s pediatrician. Describe the behavior, and report what you have observed and learned from talking with others.

  • Ask for a referral to a mental health professional who has experience and expertise dealing with children.

Warning Signs

Young children may benefit from an evaluation and treatment if they:

  •  Have frequent tantrums or are intensely irritable much of the time

  •  Often talk about fears or worries

  •  Complain about frequent stomachaches or headaches with no known medical cause

  •  Are in constant motion and cannot sit quietly (except when they are watching videos or playing   videogames)

  •  Sleep too much or too little, have frequent nightmares, or seem sleepy during the day

  •  Are not interested in playing with other children or have difficulty making friends

  •  Struggle academically or have experienced a recent decline in grades

  •  Repeat actions or check things many times out of fear that something bad may happen.

Older children and adolescents may benefit from an evaluation if they:

  •  Have lost interest in things that they used to enjoy

  •  Have low energy

  •  Sleep too much or too little, or seem sleepy throughout the day

  •  Are spending more and more time alone, and avoid social activities with friends or family

  •  Fear gaining weight, or diet or exercise excessively

  •  Engage in self-harm behaviors (e.g., cutting or burning their skin)

  •  Smoke, drink alcohol, or use drugs

  •  Engage in risky or destructive behavior alone or with friends

  •  Have thoughts of suicide

  •  Have periods of highly elevated energy and activity, and require much less sleep than usual

  •  Say that they think someone is trying to control their mind or that they hear things that other   people cannot hear.

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